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About A. Woodward &
Associates
Our company’s primary focus
is to help clients develop healthy patient
and staff relationships. Our consulting services
are customized to your organization, and your specific needs. Areas of
expertise include customer service, patient satisfaction and employee
engagement.
A. Woodward &
Associates was established in 1999 by Anita B. Woodward, MBA, FACHE. Based in
Cleveland, Ohio, we have clients in all parts of the country. Anita has over
20 years of healthcare management, customer service, and human resource
experience, and her associates have a variety of complementary skills and
experiences.
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Some years ago, in my role as a Patient Representative, I was asked to see
a man who had been in the hospital for several days. He wanted a new nurse.
When I saw him, he explained that his current nurse hated him. He knew she
did, and as a result, was uncomfortable with her treating him. When I asked
how he "knew" she hated him, he explained that every morning when
she came in, she flung back his bed curtain with one great motion, obviously
in anger at having to deal with him. His hurt was very real.
When I spoke to the nurse, I learned that she, too, was hurting. She did not
know why the patient didn’t like her, and had no bad feelings about him. I
also learned that she knew from long experience that the roller balls on that
particular bed curtain were out of alignment, and that one strong pull
worked, while a gentler, continuous pull caused them to repeatedly get stuck.
Her vigorous pulling back of the curtain had nothing to do with her feelings for
the patient.
This patient’s perception was
his reality. He believed the nurse "hated" him, and he acted on
that "knowledge." This is not a story about who was right and who
was wrong in this circumstance. It is, instead, a reminder that for all of
us, our perception IS our reality.
This was called to my attention recently by a client, who gave me feedback
after a retreat I had led. His perception and mine of how things went were
quite different.
What does
color our perceptions, creating our reality? One important thing is our
personal history. All of our life’s experiences, values, and beliefs color
our analysis of any event or person, creating our perception. Since other
people have different histories, their perceptions can clearly be different,
ala the bed curtain story.
Our perceptions can also be colored by our expectations, and by feedback we
receive.
Finally, our perception about our own
behavior is colored by our knowledge of what our intentions were.
Unfortunately, other people cannot know our intentions; they only see our
actions, and so they draw their own conclusions about our motivations. When
we do this, we rarely realize we have made up the intentions of another; it
happens so quickly we just believe our analysis to be real. Thus, the patient
who "knew" the nurse hated him, based on her actions.
Most of us have had the experience of learning that others misconstrued our
behavior to mean something very different, and often much more negative, than
we had intended.
Why is this important? When our perceptions, which are our realities, differ
from another’s, we often have miscommunication, misunderstanding, anger,
defensiveness, and loss of trust.
There are some ways to minimize the problems caused by the perception IS
reality phenomenon.
- Realize that people are analyzing your behavior and
ascribing motives to it all the time. Human nature being what it is
these ascribed motives are often negative.
- Whenever you have the chance, explain the motives for
your behavior and decisions to others. Never assume they will know this
on their own.
- Ask for feedback on things that you have done. Ask in
such a way that people believe you really want to know.
- Make it safe for them to give you negative feedback by
carefully controlling your reactions. Facial expression and body
language are very important here. Listen carefully rather than argue.
Remember, their perception IS their reality. Hold your explanations
until the other is done giving feedback, and be sure you do not sound
defensive.
- Think about possible negative interpretations of your
behavior ahead of time, and act accordingly.
- Try not to ascribe motives to the behavior of others.
Remember that we only know the behavior, not what is in someone's head.
- Ask questions to learn what someone's motives were
before assuming they were negative.
- If you are giving feedback to someone about how their
behavior was perceived to be negative, be as tactful as possible,
recognizing that they will have a very human tendency to become
defensive. They knew their motives, and knew they intended no harm.
As we start a New Year, hopefully remembering that perception IS reality
will help us assume less about the intentions of others' behavior, and will
help us remember that, like it or not, people will be making assumptions
about our own behavior. Those assumptions will become their perceptions, and
thus their reality.
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We have often experienced people seeing us in person at conferences,
speaking engagements, and the like who receive our newsletter and like it,
but who ask us “What exactly does your company do?” So we decided to include
a brief summary in this first newsletter of 2009, as we celebrate 10 years in
business.
The answer to that question is complicated, because we do not have a single
service or product. In general, I tell people we work with hospitals and
physician groups that want to improve patient satisfaction and/or employee
engagement. We have also worked with individual departments within hospitals.
In essence, we are helping our clients change their culture. Details of how
we do this differ, depending on the client’s needs. Our most common services
include the following:
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